Afraid of pain ? Read this ..

Most of us . including me are afraid of pain. But you know readers . life has its own unique ways to make you understand what you can’t .

Lately I had become quite robotic..as lately life had dealt with a lot of painful incidents which made me quite immune to pain . But then I realised that this is so unnatural – I am just not able to cry , Few days ago my daughter cried a lot about something and said that due to this immense crying she had got a panic attack . And I just tried to soothe her by saying that its okay ..

Later I realised that how coward I was in that moment ..my not saying anything was not a sign of my strength but probably a sign of my greatest weakness.

And then came in my mind the quote that ‘ whatever you will supress, your child will express’ And there the whole story unravelled that I had just stopped feeling myself completely lately. Then it struck that whatever I will supress , my daughter will reflect .

Then I did catharsis . I watched a movie. it was quite emotional and cried like hell and found my daughter relaxed. Then , I finally realised that it is so important to feel every emotion – and the most important to feel is your pain otherwise it will reflect in your coming generations.

Don;t underestimate your pain ! Don’t be afraid of pain . Its very precipus . !!!

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